We can't save them all, right? That's what I work very hard with understanding. I know you did make that little girl's life a bit brighter, even if it was at the end. I'm sure she appreciated it. Sometimes that's all we get to manage. Same goes for Buff--try not to let the thought of losing him cast a pall over the time you have now to love on him. It's all incurable eventually, y'know? ::tiny crooked smile:: Just have to do our very best to enjoy the always too short time that we do get.
Just rambling to repeat most of this myself I think. At the first sign of trouble I lose it with the best of 'em, but maybe if I can remember this stuff enough when things are good, I won't be quite so lost when they aren't. ::more hugs::
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We can't save them all, right? That's what I work very hard with understanding. I know you did make that little girl's life a bit brighter, even if it was at the end. I'm sure she appreciated it. Sometimes that's all we get to manage. Same goes for Buff--try not to let the thought of losing him cast a pall over the time you have now to love on him. It's all incurable eventually, y'know? ::tiny crooked smile:: Just have to do our very best to enjoy the always too short time that we do get.
Just rambling to repeat most of this myself I think. At the first sign of trouble I lose it with the best of 'em, but maybe if I can remember this stuff enough when things are good, I won't be quite so lost when they aren't. ::more hugs::